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The World is as You Are

2/28/2021

 
Identifying the cause of suffering takes stillness
and a reflective mind.
                                                      
Byron Katie
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The start of a new year often prompts us to choose a word as

an orienting force for the year ahead. Usually, that word is a

positive vibration for who you want to become, such as

“intentional,” “purposeful,” “kind,” “compassionate,” etc. At Co-

Creative Mandalas we invest our attention and our intention

toward allowing the vibration of each mandala to have a voice.

As many of you know, the mandalas we co-create arise from

intuition and as they are created, their individual vibration

emerges for each month and collectively point us toward the

vibration for the complete yearly cycle. The vibration of

‘Oneness’ chose us for the 2021 cycle of the Grand Mandala.

After all the changes and challenges to our personal,

professional, and spiritual lives that came with 2020, ‘Oneness’

seems very appropriate. What is your vibration for 2021? Why

did you choose that vibration?
In January, we welcomed the vibration of ‘Silence’; be still

and listen, quiet the mind, trust nature’s process working

through us. So, a quick check-in....how is your ‘Silence’

practice going so far?


On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being--I’m fully in my body, fully

energized, focused and firing on all cylinders--
where are you

right now? If you’re not 10 out of 10 then, where's the rest of

you?


Or maybe you notice that you have more moments of ‘Silence’

than before....and if so, can you see that as a small shift?!! Cuz

it is!!!



And if you haven't gotten into the habit yet of tapping into

‘Silence’...that's okay, too! If creating new habits was easy then

you would make a decision and – VIOLA!! - it would be done!


But we all know that doesn't happen easily!


Until that day comes be gentle with yourself, set up reminders to

be still and listen, take a breath, notice  the things that hijack

your well-being and the things that help you grow. Put a sticky

note on your bathroom mirror or set up notifications on your

phone to remind you to BREATHE. Do whatever it takes until it's

a habit.


For February, we welcomed the vibration of ‘Reflection’. I love

the multiple meanings of 'Reflection':



  1. The act of self-evaluation, the inner process of understanding yourself and your Self and becoming more conscious of who you are, your values, your hopes, your dreams, your thoughts, feelings, and results of your actions.
  2. Clearing your mind so, like a polished mirror, it reveals your true nature and the consequences of actions that both hinder and promote growth.
  3. Seeing the world as you are, your mind is the source of what you see “out there”.

Reflection is a path of self-empowerment. It’s a journey through

which we take responsibility for how we think and act, and

discover deeper insights regarding what we do and do not want

in our lives.


Spiritual reflection is any form of personal spiritual practice –

mental reflection, inner stillness -silence, and deep listening

practices. It is the recollection, the practice of, the continual

awareness of 'Oneness'.


You know if you're deeply listening in an inner-connected way

when you:



  • Love your whole self, including the layers of yourself that you see as flawed.   
  • Pay attention to your experience in a different way–without anticipation or judgment–to gain a new perspective.    
  • Understand that “love’s not a feeling, it’s an ability” (Steve Carroll from “Dan in Real Live”) and it takes practice.
  • Reflect on the love others have given you, and how it has shaped your life


You likely already incorporate ‘Reflection’ practices in your life

that support deep listening and connection to ‘Oneness’

including meditation, Yoga, breath-work, journalling, and the

many energy modalities. Michael Gross, author of The

Wingman’s Guide to Positivity
,
offers simple practices that

use our minds and inner-resources to live the life of our

choosing.These “just a minute a day” mindset changes are

easily incorporated into your daily routine:


  • Eliminate the shoulds, shouldn'ts, can'ts, don'ts
  • Celebrate others' joy, good fortune, happiness
  • Congratulate yourself, give yourself a gold star
  • If you're hanging on by a thread, love the thread
  • "A day without laughter is a wasted day." Charlie Chaplin


Bottom line, catch the negative thoughts before you go down

the rabbit hole. Allow the feelings to come up so they can

dissolve. When you're in a place of uncertainty, doubt or, fear,

here's a tool you can try for turning toward ‘Oneness’:


Come up with a mantra, an affirmation, you can say to yourself

every time you become aware that you’re traveling down the

rabbit hole. Saying the mantra will stop negative thoughts in

their tracks.


My mantra is "may I know peace". Feel free to use it too or say

something that resonates more with you. A phrase that shifts

your attention toward your desired feeling and stops the story

you're telling yourself, and reminds you of ‘Oneness’.



This is the time to reflect on the ways that the changing season

effects us, our attitudes, our energy, and our focus.  On

February 1st, we reached the mid-point between winter and

spring. At the time I thought, “only half way through winter?!”

Now, there are just twenty days until the first day of spring.  This

is an important time for treating yourself with great love and

compassion, to deeply nurture yourself, and to spend some

lovely reflection time just being in the gentle calm and stillness.

And, for connecting with nature’s “emerging design”.


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Have you noticed the subtle signs of the Earth starting to wake

up? Even though it may still be quite cold (at least where I am in

Colorado), you may start to see glimmers of nature waking up.

The old maple tree out front is starting to bud and the grape

hyacinth are poking their bright green leaves out of the ground.

What shifts are you noticing? Are there any signs of new life

sprouting outside where you live?


Do you see any signs of new beginnings stirring in your own

life?


Spring is coming, and bringing new life & new beginnings. But in

order to begin something new, something has to change. To

change, you have to leave behind what is safe & comfortable.

You have to gently nudge yourself to grow in new ways.


Following nature’s lead, this is the time to allow inspiration to stir

within you; a call to allow your inner transformations to come

forth so you can grow into the highest and best version of

yourself in 2021. Danu Forest says it best here.


To call in inspiration is to begin to see our life infused with spirit, to discover a new or renewed vision for greater creativity on all levels. To call in healing is to resolve the things that hold us back or limit our potential. We all have parts of our lives and bodies that need healing, and to give this aspect of ourselves a boost at this time of the year sets us up for a more empowered and happier future.
                                                        Danu Forest, The Magical Year
It’s no accident you’re here now – awakened, ready to serve

humanity with your message and your offerings and your

presence. Are you feeling the change that has already begun for

2021? History is being made right here and right now.


There is only question to ask yourself...“What is my part in

it? ”What do I choose to do to co-create a new beginning for a

better future for myself and for the world"?


One of our individual and collective spiritual tasks over winter is

to integrate everything we learned during the past year. That's

one of the main reasons for winter's rest; to reflect on and

absorb the wisdom from all our experiences in 2020. This Co-

Creative Mandala--'Reflection' from a photo of violas (they are

just emerging) reminds us to invest the time necessary for self-

reflection on the past as we move toward the future.

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Inner and outer energy are rising. Just like everything in nature, you have a unique pattern of wholeness.
Reflect on this awareness
and allow your full potential to emerge.

Reflection Exercise:

In this simple, yet powerful exercise, I invite you to celebrate

Reflection and feel supported by your inner and outer

resources.  Honor this powerful time of rest, rejuvenation, and

healing.


Intention:


This is a special opportunity to reflect on the emerging energy,

within you and as it's reflected in nature. Spring isn't quite here,

and yet, there are signs of what is on the horizon. We have a

few days before the first day of spring, so it's important to invest

this time toward letting go of anything that is holding us back

and open ourselves to our emerging potential.



Give yourself plenty of time without interruptions to dive

deeply into this exercise. Meditate, journal, create and bless   

your sacred space.


Make this exercise your own. Invest your time and attention.


Don’t rush.
 

As you sit quietly in your space, light a candle that welcomes

'Reflection'. 



In a moment, when you are done reading through the

instructions, write everything that the Co-Creative

Mandala-'Reflection' makes you think of. Write how you feel

when you look at it. Write about what the associated chakras

represent (solar plexus, heart, and crown) and how that might

be applicable to your journey toward Oneness this year.



Close your eyes. Bring your awareness to your breath; just be

with your breath. Take a deep breath in. Breathe out. Take

another deep breath in. Breathe out. Notice the sensations as

you exhale—without judgement.  Feel the body breathing. Bring

your body into stillness.


Open your eyes and bring your attention to the 'Reflection'

mandala; allow the mandala energy to fill your heart; be with

whatever is there.


Invest a few minutes toward allowing the 'Reflection' energy to

flow to and through your body.  Imagine that energy bursting

through your crown chakra and extending far into the heavens.


Imagine the 'Reflection' energy flowing through you and down

deep into the earth. Imagine it radiating from your heart and

extending out in front of you and behind you. Imagine the

'Reflection' energy is a radiant ball that encircles you.


Now, sit with this energy for a few minutes.

 
What about the 'Reflection' mandala captures your attention?


Notice and Wonder--Something in me is feeling...


I wonder what it wants me to know?
 

Relax into your body and its quietness. Be with the energy, be

present, listen.



Here's the ritual:

1. Take out a piece of paper and answer this question:

    
What challenges did I face last year?



2. Then thank all the items on the list for having been with

     you.


3. Next, answer this question:

    What lessons did I learn from those challenges?

   
4. Next, answer this question:

    What wisdom did I gather during my inward journey this

    winter?


5. Now write down and speak out loud the word, the vibration

    you choose as you move into spring. Why did you choose this

    vibration?



As you reflect on the end of winter's rest, appreciate the

cycles of nature.   This is the time to feel the inspiration and

potential rising within. What will this emerging energy bring for

you, for all beings, for the planet?



Is this the year you decided to remember your 'Oneness'?


Thank you for being on this journey. And for continuing to give

the world the gift of your best self.


Peace and joy to your seeking heart,

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