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Blessings of Grief & Gratitude

11/28/2019

 
Mia culpa! It's been nearly six months since I sent a newsletter.

I've missed connecting with you! This is a good time to let you

know that I appreciate you. I'm grateful for your presence--

whether you're nearby or far away. Since the last newsletter, we

had the good fortune of a experiencing a beautiful summer and

a bountiful harvest that we're still enjoying. We have a lot to be

grateful for.


I've noticed that many blogs, posts, and books are talking about

gratitude – the positive effects it has for our lives.  November is

National Gratitude Month and today is Thanksgiving in the US.

There are so many ways to practice gratitude, from journals to

lists. Gratitude is a mindfulness practice that brings your

attention into the present. The here and now is the moment in

which you can fully experience joy, love, compassion, and

peace.  I wonder if you consistently express it to yourself or

others? What if it's hard to find the gratitude?



This time of year offers an opportunity to bring the power of

gratitude into your life and awaken to the amazing blessings in

and around you.  And, it can be challenging. It's that time of year

again when the days are shorter and the nights are longer.  We

are physically shifting more deeply inward: spending more &

more time indoors as the days grow darker & colder.  In

Colorado we've had record setting snow fall. We're spending

less time out in nature (we don't ski or participate in other winter

sports). For some of us, this time of year can be very

challenging. The fall months are about darkness, and shadows,

and letting things go. It's a time for transitioning from the

outward-focused season of summer, into the season of drawing

our energies inward, focusing more on our inner-lives.  Often

when the shorter days come, we have that time of adjustment,

when we don't feel as bright or as grateful as we'd like to.

Remember, the seasonal energy is supporting you, and

encouraging you, to  look inside – at your own inner darkness &

shadows. Because right now, at this dark time of year, you can

see into your shadows – you can see things hidden away there

– in ways that you can't during the brighter times of year. 



This is the time to embrace death as a part of the growth

process, because new life can't grow without letting the old

things die. Just recently my sweet partner reminded me of that 

when we were clearing out the gardens for the winter months

ahead and I was feeling sad that the gardening season was

over--"it's because of this that we'll see all the beauty and

growth next summer."  Death is a crucial component of life, and

of growth, a process that should be honored, rather than feared.



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Just like the maple tree releases the

bright and beautiful fall leaves, this is

the time to let go and release our old

"belief leaves" to make room for new

growth and life in the spring.



And with all death, there's a process of

grief & mourning that we go through.

Even when a death is ultimately good for us, even when we're

letting bad habits die or challenging old beliefs ... there's still a

grieving process we need to experience.  We held onto these

things for a reason & it's sad (and scary) to let them go.



This is the season to do the work of letting things go from our

lives and grieving the things we're releasing – so we can truly

grow & evolve. Beginning with the Winter Solstice in a few

weeks… we'll plant our hopes & dreams for the coming year in

the new space we've co-created.



This season I’m working on letting go of the old, outdated

stories I tell myself, false limiting-beliefs I’ve lived with for years;

stories that aren’t even true. They're not even mine. Other

people planted them in my mind when I was too young to

challenge them. I'm working hard to identify all the ways I hold

myself back. What are the stories I tell myself that keep me

trapped, keep me playing small in my safe, familiar little bubble?




Those stories, those old beliefs were useful for keeping me

safe. Slowly, over time I'm noticing a shift in my energy from

grieving the loss of those beliefs and outdated stories to

gratitude for the ways those beliefs once served me even if they

no longer serve me now.


This Co-Creative Mandala, "Blessings" offers an invitation to

embrace the process of letting go, of grieving the loss of old,

outdated "friends", and welcoming more life affirming, expansive

beliefs. I'm grateful for this opportunity to begin again and live

my best self, embrace all shadows, remember and appreciate

my goodness and the goodness of all beings.


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All that I am,

all that I see,
,
all that I've been and

all that I'll ever be,

is a blessing...

and I'm grateful for it all.


- Nimo Patel & Daniel Nahmod


Blessings Exercise:

Fall has always been considered as a time for introspection and

letting go; of going inward and honoring the shadows; of

embracing the cycle of death. 
If changes need to be made in

your life, this exercise is going to set that in motion.
It’s

designed to help you honor what is and leave behind whatever

doesn’t serve you, grieve the loss, and experience gratitude for

all parts of yourself.



Give yourself plenty of time to dive deeply into this exercise.

Meditate, journal, create your sacred space for doing this

exercise throughout the spring season. Come back to this

exercise as often as you like. Make it your own.



Find a quiet place, without interruptions. Light two candles, one

for that part of you that is holding on and one for that part of you

that is letting go.

 

Invest your time and attention. Don’t rush. Close your eyes.

Take several deep breaths. 

 

Open your eyes and focus on the mandala. Invest a

few minutes toward feeling the “Blessings” energy traveling

through your body & all your chakras. Imagine that energy

bursting through your crown chakra & extending far into the

heavens. Now, feel the “Blessings” energy entering your

body through your crown chakra. Sit with this energy for a few

minutes, feel yourself connected to the mandala energy.


 
What about the mandala captures your attention? Notice and

Wonder--Something in me is feeling...

 
I wonder what it wants me to know?




Begin asking yourself the following questions; acknowledge

whatever is holding you and holding you back. This helps train

your brain to cultivate gratitude for the blessings in your life.

 


1. What am I being invited to let go of?

 
2. What has stopped me from releasing this?

 
3. How is this influencing my life?

 
4. What is something I can do to begin letting this go?




The cycle of death has begun. This is the season of

death and release. Right now, these energies are combining to

make this a time of grieving and gratitude. 
In order to make this

change a reality, first appreciate what is. Then cultivate the

power of blessings. 
Believe that by honoring your grief for all

that you're letting go of you are supporting your growth and

evolution.




You may have difficulty with this process. I know when I first

started intentionally shifting my attention to the cycle of death,

I thought I was focusing on the negative and wasn't being

spiritual.. That seems odd to me now, but I was invested in the

limiting beliefs that come from resisting what is.  I think I was

afraid to let go and honor grief as a pathway to gratitude. I invite

you to be gentle with yourself and trust the process. You've

been living with these beliefs for a lifetime; they've protected you

and kept you safe. It's important to acknowledge and honor this.




One energy modality that I've found to be gentle and effective

for working with limiting beliefs is EFT/Tapping. By tapping on

meridian accupoints, EFT-Tapping sends a signal to the energy

system that you are safe.  It's a very effective technique for

clearing our energy system of the disruptions that happened

when the experiences we had created the limiting beliefs.

When we feel safe, we can see our human experience through

a compassionate and optimistic lens.



I offer 30-minute complimentary EFT/Tapping Sessions. This is

a perfect way to begin exploring and releasing limiting beliefs as

you move toward a life of Eternal Optimism.


Peace and Joy to your seeking heart,

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